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Advanced Steps for Cleansing

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If you want to have extra help when you’re cleansing (especially if you have breakout),  try adding clay mask to your cleanser . You don’t  need  to do this, but I recommend experimenting with it and see if your face doesn’t feel a little cleaner after using this “advanced” technique. Truly there isn’t anything revolutionary or high-level about this, really, but I always commend those of you who choose to anything above and beyond your Basics routine. In order to mix these two products together, I suggest these simple steps: Squirt or pump or squeeze your cleanser into the palm of your hand  Take your clay mask and mix some into the cleanser I would  use two parts cleanser to one part clay . This will give you a little deeper cleanse, along with a slight exfoliating action.  Due to clay’s earth nature, it does have a semi-granular texture. So if you have a lot of infection to your breakout,  don’t use this  or just be sure not t...

Why You Don’t Want To Use A Magnifying Mirror

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At the end of Chapter One of Timeless Skin I wrote: I strongly recommend not using a magnifying mirror when it comes to looking at your face. Unless you require one to apply makeup, there is no need to make yourself crazy with this unrealistic view of your skin. No one looking at your skin can see what shows up through magnification. Not even you! Recently a new client, Diane, called me about her problem skin, wondering if I could help her. We spoke for a few minutes, and she booked a facial. She came in without makeup, and I noticed her skin looked to be in pretty good shape although she reiterated her concern for “all the breakouts” she was experiencing. At first glance I thought perhaps she had gotten a little too much sun over her lifetime, but all in all, she didn’t have a lot of problems that I could see. Later I would look at her skin under magnification. That would tell me the real story. I filled out a questionnaire and proceeded with the facial. I asked wha...

Just Say NO to a Lip Wax!

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If you haven ’ t ever had your upper lip waxed— don ’ t! The reason I don ’ t recommend a first-time lip wax is simply because you will be starting a never-ending process . You could be creating thicker, darker hair in an area that may actually be just fine as it is. Contrary to what you may have heard (that the hair doesn ’ t grow in darker after waxing), in my experience with what I ’ ve seen with my clients is that it does . What I have found throughout the years working on thousands of female clients is that they have a defective view of the hair that exists above their lips. Granted, some women do have a true moustache that contains thick, dark hair that may need to be removed. But for the most part, many women just think they need to have a lip wax, when in actuality they have no real noticeable dark hair on their upper lip. Unfortunately this is sometimes encouraged by fellow aestheticians. I used to offer waxing at my salons. Why? I knew people (mostly w...

Astringents and your skin

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Just saying the word astringent connotes a drying, tightening, caustic liquid you would put on problem or oily skin. This term is at best antiquated and doesn’t really apply or equate to the term toner any more. If you are using a true astringent with alcohol (the bad kind) as an ingredient — stop! Don ’ t use it another day. Throw it away (or if you just purchased it, return it) , and know you just gave your skin a huge break from a harmful product.  A stringents in years past almost always contained alcohol — on purpose — and some toners still do. Alcohol is used to dry up the oil on your face , therefore helping your oily skin , right? The truth is, using the bad kind of alcohol, like the kind used in some types of toners, is one of the worst things you can do to your skin. Instead of promoting health, alcohol destroys the healthy balance your skin requires to function properly, which can promote problems. Drying up oil actually puts your skin in a state o...

Aestheticians/Pros: PLEASE READ THIS!

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For a while now I have been posting articles for the layperson here on ageless beauty, timeless skin , and I hope this information is and continues to be helpful for you in keeping your skin healthy and balanced. Many aestheticians also read this blog, and originally I was going to post articles here to help professionals from my 30 years of experience. I changed my mind and created a new blog: Help for Aestheticians: Starting a business . There I will be posting many articles for skin care pros. Most of the articles will be about how to run a successful business—or how I have, anyway. There are many ideas that can help almost any business looking to increase their client base along with ideas to build client relationships. For any of you interested in seeing how I have run my business, read away! Some of the posts may actually be interesting to you, although I wrote them for professionals who I hope will get good ideas to help them in their businesses and their ...

Microdermabrasion—What’s all the fuss about?

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What is microdermabrasion? There is a lot written about this anti-aging procedure. Let’s take a look at what all the fuss is about. There are no lasers or chemicals used in microdermabrasion. The procedure entails a small tube that sprays a jet of fine crystals (resembling sand) onto the skin’s surface, which helps remove dead and damaged cells. It is said to be painless and does not require anesthesia of any kind. It’s sometimes called a “lunchtime peel,” meaning you can go in on your lunch break and come out without looking too red or swollen. Many clients (myself included) didn’t find the procedure to be 100% painless. And when I did some experiments, getting microdermabrasion facials on just one side of my face (I’m the eternal experimenter!), the side that was abraded was very sensitive—even to the touch—for several days. Microdermabrasion helps regenerate new cell growth. It is said to stimulate collagen production and increase blood supply to the skin. With rep...

What is the SHELF LIFE of skin care products? And how to tell if a product has “gone bad”

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What is the shelf life of products? Every product is different, and every shelf life is different, so the answer to this question varies and is based on several factors. First, has the product been opened? Depending on how they are sealed, unopened skin care products have (or should have) a long shelf life. But at the same time, you don’t want products that have been on the shelf forever. Opened, it is really anyone’s guess how long a product will last without losing its potency. Second, has the product been exposed to heat or sunlight? This can dramatically decrease the life of a product. Products in tubes tend to have a lower rate of bacterial infestation than products that come in jars. With jars, you are usually putting your bare fingers in each time to get out product, which may allow a lot of bacteria to enter the cream or lotion. Even though many companies provide a spatula or some type of applicator, I don’t know if anyone really uses them. In general, your ope...

The Forgotten Places: The Elbows

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When was the last time you put anything on your elbows? This area is truly a Forgotten Place on many people — including those as young as teenagers. Moisturizing is the most important thing you can do to keep your elbows from looking like they just stepped off an elephant. If you have a special hand cream, smooth a little on your elbows as well. This skin needs attention and should become a part of your Forgotten Places routine. You can also exfoliate your elbows. It’s not something I personally subscribe to, but exfoliation certainly helps skin, no matter where it is located. Be careful while using an exfoliater on your elbows. Although this skin may feel tough, it is very thin skin and can be sensitive to too much abrasion. As far as sunscreen goes, when putting it on your arms, get some on your elbows too. But for the most part, moisturizing is the main step you want to include when taking care of your forgotten elbows. For more information, see: Do you have dry, ...

HEADSPACE: Get your meditation on

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I love foreign accents, quiet time, and innovation. Those are just some of the reasons I love Headspace. ( www.headspace.com ) Headspace was co-foundeded by Rich Pierson and British-accented Andy Puddicombe and is a very easy way to start a meditation practic e — or cont inue your practice in a different way. The following was taken directly from Wikipedia : Andy Puddicombe (born 23 September 1972) is the founder of Headspace; an award-winning digital health platform that provides guided meditation sessions for its users. A former Buddhist monk with a degree in Circus Arts. According to The Times, he is also considered the “international poster boy for the modern mindfulness movement.” As both author and public speaker, Puddicombe is known for his simple, accessible and secular approach, which has led to over 1 million users of the Headspace platform. The New York Times claims “Puddicombe is doing for meditation what Jamie Oliver has done for food.” ...

Oily Skin explained

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What is oily skin? This is a condition where the sebaceous glands are producing too much oil. The passageway from the oil gland to the skin’s surface is via the hair follicle. Along this route, if too much oil is being produced, a traffic jam or backup will occur. This backup produces any number of problems: blackheads ( comedos or open pores), whiteheads ( milia or closed pores), pustules (debris inside a closed pore is infected with pus), and potentially acne (infected cysts deep within the skin). Why is it oily? Your skin can be oily for a number of reasons. Of course, you may be predisposed genetically to having oily skin (one or both parents had oily and/or problem skin).   Diet plays a big role in how much oil is being produced. Climate (temperature) will affect your oil gland activity. Heat stimulates glandular activity, so a hot summer’s day can cause your skin to be oily. Puberty and the onset of hormonal surges can cause oily skin to appear. Eve...

Pregnant with Problem Skin

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The only difference between problem skin when you’re expecting and when you’re not is just a matter of control. When you are pregnant, your body and how it functions is essentially out of your control. I tell my clients (especially first-time pregnancies) to (metaphorically) throw theirs arms up in the air and resign themselves to these changes. This is usually not welcome news. Having a relaxed attitude about the changes that occur in your body—and your skin—is very important. Consider adopting The Serenity Prayer (by Reinhold Niebuhr ): “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” When you’re pregnant, serenity and wisdom will be your greatest allies. You can control your skin (raging hormones) just about as well as you can stop your belly from growing. If you realize early on that you are not in control of your body and the baby is, you will fare a whole lot bett...

Where to look for a great facial

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Finding a good professional facial involves two key elements. First, you need to find a qualified and experienced aesthetician (a person licensed to perform facials). Then you want to find someone who uses quality products . Both the aesthetician and the product need to be good for the facial to be worth your time and money. You may have to go through some trial and error before you find the perfect facial for you. The easiest way to find someone who is good at her craft is through a friend’s referral . You want suggestions from someone who has had a lot of facials, a person whose opinion you respect. If your friends don’t get them, ask if someone they know can steer you to a good place for a facial. If you’ve just moved to a new town, ask everyone you meet for a referral, and if the same name keeps coming up, you can start there. (Prior to my books being published, my entire business was built from referrals. It’s the best advertising there is.) If you can’t get a referral...

Helpful hints to lessen sugar intake

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Perhaps you’ve read Sugar Addicted? Try a three-day sugar fast (see link below) and decided to give up sugar for a while. Maybe it was a New Year’s resolution, deciding it was time to make a positive change and sugar had to go. Whether you’re skilled at letting the sweet stuff go or need some helpful hints, the suggestions below may be new to you, and my hope is these ideas help you to lessen sugar in your diet to bring you closer to balanced health. Don’t eat sugar two days in a row. If I follow this rule, the addiction doesn’t have a chance to set in, I get to exercise my will, and I can have sugar every now and then. This doesn’t mean it’s OK to eat it every other day. It means don’t go on a run of eating sugar for days on end. Have some cookies one day if you haven’t had sugar in a while and just want to indulge. But stop there. Otherwise you will get your system readdicted and you’ll have to go through the withdrawal process all over again. Don’t start another chain...